47 Ways To Avoid A Bad Day

Once in a while we all wake up with that feeling that nothing will go right that day, we are cranky, we miss the commuter to work, and we are late to work, and so on. While nothing can kill our mood or make us downcast faster than a bad day that gets handled poorly.

There are people that either gets a good night rest or else they are in a bad mood, some either get an early morning coffee or they remain gloomy and cranky the rest of the day. This post is not about the different mood swings people face but how to handle those situations that leave us with skewed perspectives or a short fuse. These are times when your frustration gets the better of you and you become tempted to take it out on the world and people around you.

Look people in the eye and smile. We tend to keep our eyes to ourselves when we’re in a bad mood.  This not only comes across as rude, but let’s us remain in our frowning facade.  Often times it’s our actions that need to come first and our feelings will follow.  Force yourself to give the other person a big fat smile and you’ll not only make them feel good, but you’ll most likely melt some of your ‘frozen features’ as well.

1. Wake Up On Time

While you need to wake up on time every day, make sure that you have ample time to eat breakfast and to plan your day. The worst thing you can do is to start off your day is being in hurry and running late to an appointment. When you do your body will be under stress, and if you repeat this every day over a period of time you risk ruining your health because of too much stress every morning.

2. Rid Yourself Of Every Distractions

To avoid a bad day when working on your most important tasks of the day, it is very important that you remove all distractions whatsoever. For starters, you can turn off email notifications, instant messaging applications and even mute your mobile phone or a complete switch off so as to avoid routine habits like checking social updates or answering calls that might get you worked up.

3. Take Short Breaks Whenever You Can

Sometimes every moment of our day feels like a struggle and in other to stay positive it is helps to take breathers or short breaks at intervals between missions.  Use these times to rest your mind, breathe deeply and clear your head.

4. Have Something To Look Forward To At The End Of The Day

Sometimes we do need a prize or focus to keep our drive alive. When you feeling the day might be heading in the wrong direction, keep a focus. Just like the kid that uses the thought of chocolates to get through his homework, look forward to something you like to help you get through the day.

5. Take A Nap

When all you want to do is avoid the world for a while, try taking a nap as it’ll fulfil your antisocial tendencies and let you recharge for a little there by refreshing your mood. Just make sure you do it in a way that won’t ruin your sleep that night.

6. Focus On Tomorrow

Sometimes the simple thought that we are heading into a new day and the knowledge that I’ll get another chance at it in less than 24 hours is enough to brighten us up. Make a game plan not to repeat whatever mistakes marred the day, and then just put all your focus in making tomorrow better.

7. Phone A Good Friend

Sometimes to avoid a bad day it is good to call a friend who won’t allow you to gripe about your problems for more than a few minutes before turning the conversation to something far more interesting than what’s making you sad at that time. Picking the phone and talking to somebody you trust that cares enough to guide you toward positive thinking has tremendous value in lightening up your mood.

8. Help Out A Stranger

Sometimes doing something for others has the benefit of making the world a better place while at the same time taking your focus off your own problems as you work to solve another’s. When having what’s shaping up to be a bad day you may find it very helpful to go out of your way to help somebody you don’t know.

9. Don’t Procrastinate

My most frustrating days were those when I decided to finish something important later or “tomorrow,” and then I didn’t even do that, while my most fulfilling days, on the other hand, happened to be those when I managed to finish all of my important tasks during the day, or even better, when I finished them immediately in the morning. You will end up making it even harder to finish since you will be rushed for time, you will constantly think about what you need to do, feeling guilty because you didn’t do it all.

10. Drop Something From Your Schedule

If you’re overwhelmed by a day gone bad a very quick solution is to drop some of the less important things from your schedule and take some time for yourself. This is a quite simple and very easy method, though part of your brain will try to convince you that your work won’t survive without you.

11. Make A List Of The Most Important Tasks Of The Day

You need to be focused on your important tasks and work hard to finish them. Make a list of things you need to do in the. You can think about them while brushing your teeth and preparing your breakfast, but it is very important that you write them down somewhere. While a piece of paper is better than nothing, I suggest that you have at least a small notebook to write your daily tasks which are more important.

12. Manage Your Time Well

To enjoy your day you need to be in control of what you are doing and when you are doing it. This is why you need to make sure that you remove all possible distractions and find a good and peaceful place where you can work so as to be focused and fulfil your daily targets.

13. Take Some Time Just For Yourself

When we lose ourselves in work and don’t schedule time alone and away from others, whether it’s to listen to music, go for a walk, or grab a cup of tea in a quiet corner, taking the time you may have freed up by clearing your schedule and investing it back into yourself will brighten your mood.

14. Get Some Exercise

Exercise has been known to increases endorphins and can naturally switch a mood from bad to good in a matter of a few minutes. You can get an endorphin boost from exercise by exerting a moderate or high level of exercise, the body releases endorphins which can be associated with feelings of happiness. Though the feeling isn’t long lasting, it is enough to make you forget about your troubles.

15. Make Yourself Laugh

Laughter can also help alleviate your bad mood; smiling helps us get rid of stress and lower our heart rate. The only thing you have to remember is that it has to be a genuine smile; this will activate the joy centres in our brain. It is believed that laughter has survived evolution because it brings us together and makes feel better.

16. Play A Little

Play is an important part of enjoying adult life and helps to relieve our minds of tensions, you might feel a little ridiculous, but we guarantee that swinging on the swings will make you feel better any day of the year and improve your mood.

17. Listen To Music

Music can trigger a release of dopamine into your brain making you happy. It can cause a pleasurable feeling that can turn a frown into a smile in the span of a three-minute pop song. As you’re following a tune, you are anticipating what’s going to happen next and the reward for doing so is a little shot of pleasure.

18. Break A Bad Habit For A Day

Next time you’re in a bad mood, try giving up one of your bad habits for just that day. A Brown University study found that even breaking a bad habit temporarily makes you feel happier for the duration that you refrain from it there by cutting out a bad day.

19. Focus On The Moment

Our most productive and efficient days are those when we are not thinking about the past or future, but when we are focused on the present and only on the task that we are doing at that moment in time. Make sure you are doing in each moment what you know you need to do. Our best days are those when we manage to do more than usual and we can do that only when we are completely focused on what we are doing at the moment.

20. Hug Someone

We already know that a hug makes us feel better, but now science proves it. When we touch another person it triggers a spike in oxytocin, which is the love hormone, and decreases cortisol, the stress hormone, even if it’s just a friendly handshake can improve our day

21. Take A Walk Around Your Yard

Sometimes to relieve stress and turn around a gloomy day, taking a walk around the neighbourhood or park can help calm our minds and improve a bad day.

22. Be Calm And Only Speak In A Pleasant Tone

Yelling never solves any problem and will only worsen a bad day, try been calm for a change and talk to people in a pleasant tone even when you are seething inside this helps to rid us of our anger and calm our nerves.

23. Speed Up Your Thinking

A study in 2009 showed that thinking quickly makes you feel more powerful, energetic and happy. Try imposing a time limit on solving a riddle, or watch a movie in fast-forward motion or attempt a crossword puzzle.

24. Smile More

This is good therapy for lightening up your mood and getting back to being happy.

25. Don’t Force It

There’s nothing wrong with a bad mood, so don’t beat up yourself over it. Forcing yourself to be happy can cause you to hide your negative emotions and make you feel worse in the long run, allow yourself to be miserable until you’re ready to feel better.

26. Have Some Chocolate

Dark chocolate helps your brain release endorphins and serotonin, an anti-depressant, and contains chemicals that affect the brain similarly to marijuana. So eating them when you’ve had a bad day helps put you on the right track, and the abundance of antioxidants and other minerals help make it a guilt-free treat. Just keep your noshing to a few squares to avoid binging which isn’t healthy.

27. Get Off Of Social Media

While people post on social media to brag about their own lives, studies have shown that when you’re comparing that with your inner life, it can make you feel even more depressed.  So skip the social media for the day and opt for real human interaction instead to make you happy.

28. Look At Positive Affirmations

Affirmations are known as great character builders and having and reading a list of positive affirmations daily can brighten our day.

29. Call Someone You Love

There is always that one person who can always cheer us up. Call them, and don’t worry too much about bothering them. The people you love will always be there for you. Just try to remember to be there for them in return when they call you up.

30. Get Creative

Indulge in a hobby, do something you love paint, write or garden. When you channel your negative energy into creative processes you’ll feel much better and accomplish something to boot.

31. Take A Hot Shower Or Bath

Studies from the International Journal of Stress Management have proved that anxiety and depression decrease to about a quarter after taking a bath with food-grade Epsom salts. You could also take a hot shower if you’re looking for a more invigorating mood booster.

32. Write In A Journal

Writing down your feelings in coherent sentences forces you to make more sense of them, thus reducing stress and anxiety. Want even more of a pick-me-up? Write a list of things you’re grateful for.

33. Look At Colors

Certain colors have certain attributes, looking at the color blue relaxes your mind. Studies have yet to back this up. If you hate the color blue, try another color that puts you in a good mood.

34. Read A Good Book

A 34-year long study has shown that happy people were 21% more likely to read a newspaper. This means that a good book can change your mood for the better. Go for something hilarious, funny or exhilarating.

35. Have Sex

It is a well known fact that an orgasm will improve your mood. Intensify the benefits by having a thrust in the morning, so the boost in oxytocin keeps you feeling lovey-dovey all day long.

36. Watch A Movie

Loosing yourself in a good movie can brighten up a moody day and turn things around for the better.

37. Be Nice To People

Though it is as old as time, but has never gone out of style, when in trouble be nice to people around you, try to step outside yourself and treat them the way you’d like to be treated. This will not only help you keep a healthy perspective, but you’ll be more likely to maintain those healthy relationships.

38. Get Into The Flow

In a flow state, you become so immersed in what you’re doing you tend to forget about the world around you, and it’s just what you need to get over a bad day. If you’ve ever been in a flow state, you know exactly what activity will get you there.

39. Have A Warm Drink

It has turned out the British might be onto something, a 2008 study stated that hot beverages promoted warm feelings. Having a cup of tea won’t hurt if it would improve your mood.

40. Ask Your Kids To Tell You A Joke

This is a good way to avoid being caught up in a bad mood.

41. Hang Out With Your Loved Ones

Key to happiness is a good social circle, so don’t be afraid to lean on your loved ones when you need to. Whether you want to drink your problems away or rant and dissect every little detail of what went wrong, your loved ones are happy to do it with you and will make you laugh in the process.

42. Meditate For About 15 Minutes

This is a great stress-relief technique to help overcome a bad day, if you still have a long day ahead of you, spend 15 minutes focusing on your breath, and let your mind wander for a fast relief.

43. Have Some Water

Dehydration causes irritability and restlessness. When you have been feeling terrible all day and can’t seem to figure out the reason, try taking a glass of water, and you might be surprised at how much better you will feel afterwards.

44. Let It Out

Bottling up frustration is not healthy; if you had an awful moment at work, cry your eyes out if you need to it helps reduce the tension and will help you feel better.

45. Plan A Dinner

A good way to avoid having a bad day is to get busy planning a dinner, staying idle will cause you to reflect on the bad issues you have.

46. Go Shopping

You could go shopping for a dress or whatever you fancy, this gives you the opportunity to appreciate beauty and craft and take your mind off issues.

47. Count To Ten

This is a method to keep your mood in check, to avoid having a bad day. Count to ten backwards when you feel like yelling and you will find out it helps calm you down.

 

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